Skin Is In - 1

 

Health and Dental Issues

 “To have and to hold, in sickness and in health...” 

Whether or not you make this oath at your marriage ceremony, as a husband it is your moral responsibility to care for your wife and family.  Very often, this responsibility comes into play very early in a Fil-West marriage, so be prepared.  The fact that many Filipinas come from poor families means that such women have had very little medical or dental attention during their lives, and many will have physical or dental problems that need immediate attention. 

With regard to medical attention, one has to consider the environment and culture a Filipina comes from.  Because many Filipinos cannot afford healthcare, they rely on their families to care for them when they are sick.  As an example, slightly less than half of all Filipinas have their births delivered by trained medical personnel.  While one has to admire the solidarity of the family in these situations, the absence of a physician’s diagnosis can mean that a medical condition may go untreated for many years – diabetes, high blood pressure, glaucoma, etc.  

The absence of a doctor is made worse by the environment.  Often the water Filipinos drink is contaminated with bacteria, as is the food from certain butchers in the open-air markets.  According to the World Health Organization (http://www.who.org.ph), 1 in 4 Filipinos do not have access to safe drinking water.  1 in 3 do not have access to “excreta disposal facilities” (toilets).   

The World Health Organization also made these comments about health conditions in the Philippines: “About 33.5% of children under five years old are underweight. In rural areas undernutrition is more prevalent than in urban areas, although it is very common in urban slums. A study in 1990 found that children reared by landless farm workers or small farmers were those most at risk of being underweight.  Micronutrient malnutrition is very prevalent. The prevalence of iron deficiency anaemia increased from 26.6% in 1982 to 37.2% in 1987, largely due to dietary inadequacy and intestinal parasites. The prevalence of anaemia in pregnant women is 45% and in lactating women 50.6%. Anaemia occurs in almost 40% of children. The prevalence of endemic goitre was 3.5% in 1987. About 50% of the population is estimated to be at risk for iodine deficiency disorders. Vitamin A deficiency is a public health problem in areas of poverty. For example, whereas nationwide the prevalence of nightblindness is 0.8%, localized figures are as high as 2.5%. Bitot's spots are observed in 0.3% of the total population and in 6.9% in specificinvestigated areas. Thiamin and riboflavin deficiencies have been reported.” (http://www.wpro.who.int/themes_focuses/theme2/focus2/t2f2phi.asp)

 As so often happens in the third world, those who cannot afford adequate medical care turn to quack doctors, psychic healers, shamans, and the modern day equivalent of witch-doctors, though of course Filipinos know these folks by different names.  This situation is not helped by the highly superstitious nature of rural Filipinos.  It is very common for physical ailments to be blamed on curses or evil spirits.  Those who can inflict illness are given different names in different regions of the Philippines.  Some examples are, “wak-wak”, “aswang”, “tik-tik”, “Mangkukulams”, and “Mambabarangs”.  Sometimes the illnesses caused by these types of magic users can be cured with herbal remedies or prayer, but very often a “good” magic user is called upon to dispense with the evil ailments.  Practitioners of healing magic include the “albularyo/albularya”, the “medico”, and the “hilotero/hilotera”.   

Again, what these people are called, what powers they are believed to possess, and how legitimately they are perceived varies from region to region within the Philippines.  If you marry a Filipina from a rural area, however, do not be surprised if she has a predisposition for herbal or magical cures when she becomes ill, nor if she blames her illness on a curse or evil spirit.  How you deal with this situation is totally up to you.  My suggestion… 

(End of book excerpt – if you’d like the entire text, please consider ordering The ASAWA Guide to Fil-West Relationships.  Thank you!)


All original materials on this website (www.asawa.org, www.filipinawives.com) are copyrighted by the author, Bob Lingerfelt, 1997 -2007  with materials on file at the U.S. Copyright Office.  No reproduction is authorized, in any form, without express permission of the author.

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Section I: Pre-Relationship Education

 

Fun Trivia About The Philippines

Philippine History In A Nutshell 

Religion

What's In A Name?

A List of Famous Filipinas

The American Romance

The "Average" Fil-West Couple

So You Want To Marry A Filipina

So You STILL Want To Marry…

Heaven Or Hell?

Mail Order Brides Fact & Fiction 

Correspondence Services

Legal Concerns

Age Differences

The Attack On Feminism

A Shortage Of Filipino Males?  

The Problem With Submission

City Vs. Province

Questions For Her

Questions For Him

Suggested Books

Midnight Sunshine, a novel

A Long Way to Go for a Date

Recommended Movies

 

Section II: Courtship

 

Your Travel Budget

Flying to the Philippines

What To Take To The Philippines

Travel Tips

Philippines Travel Guide

Ninoy Aquino Int'l Airport

Security In The Philippines

Recommended Hotels

Social Situations

Learning To Communicate

Sex And Virginity

The Visitor's Visa

 

Section III: 

Engagement/

Marriage                       

                      

Taking Your Relationship Public

Expenses

Prenuptials

Annulments

So You Want an Annulment?

Wedding Costs In The Philippines

Marriage - Where and How

A Filipina Abandoned

"Separate But Equal"?

 

Section IV:

Immigration

 

Immigration Pointers

Proof Of Your Relationship

The Marriage Application

Fiancée Visa (K-1)

Spousal Visa (IR-1)

K1 & K3 Procedures

Evidence of Non-Immigrant Status (SSN)

Employment Authorization for Immigrants

St. Luke's Clinic

Immigration Numbers And Addresses

Minimum Income Requirements

 

Section V: 

Lifetime Issues

 

Health And Dental Issues

Filipina Transitions

Superstitions

Dealing With Intolerance

Tampo

Financial Support Of Relatives  

Sources of Conflict

Appendix:

 

Immigration Forms

Statistics

CIA Fact Sheet On The Philippines 

Map Of The Philippines

Electricity

Currency

Holidays

Name Structure

How To Send Money

How To Send Mail And Packages

Republic Act No. 6955

Family Code Of The Philippines

Terms And Acronyms

Filipino Communities

 

Guest Articles:

 

John's Story

Maligaya Means It

You May Be  Married to a Filipina if…

Imee

Weddings in the Philippines

The TownHouse Hotel, Manila