  
Robert Ballenger is on a mission.
An
American who lives in the Philippines with his Filipina wife, Lani, Robert
uses his personal time and very limited financial resources to run an operation
that helps reunite Amerasian (American-Asian) children with their American
fathers. He also maintains a web site, "Amerasians
- The Forsaken Ones," a beacon in cyberspace that is intended to bring
the plight of these abandoned children to the attention of Americans and
the world at large.
To get an idea how daunting
this task is for Robert, consider the fact that at the close of the Viet
Nam War there were more than 125,000 Amerasian children left behind by
their American fathers. Many of these children were fathered by our servicemen
and civilian contractors in Viet Nam itself, but still others were born
in neighboring countries like Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, Korea, Okinawa,
Japan...and, of course, the Philippine Islands.
But the Viet Nam era was not
responsible for all or even most of these births. America had maintained
bases in the Philippine since its colonization in 1899. And it was
not until 1992, practically 20 years after the Viet Nam war was concluded,
that the bases were closed. Though the American servicemen and tactical
support personnel are long gone, thousands of Amerasian children have remained
behind, feeling abandoned and helpless. The odds of any of these
children finding their fathers seems remote, and the possibility that they
will attain their birthright, American citizenship, seems an impossibility.
And yet, Robert gives these
children hope. He and his wife meet with the Filipina mothers as
well as the children themselves, and the couple gathers whatever information
they can about the child's father. Sometimes the details are skimpy,
merely the name of a sailor and a ship, for example. At other times
the fathers have actually signed affidavits acknowledging their paternal
responsibilities before disappearing, never coming back for their child
or its mother as they had promised to do.
Not all American fathers are
necessarily guilty of abandonment, however. Some don't even know
that they have children in the Philippines, and are eager, when located,
to acknowledge their responsibilities. Sometimes the fathers know
of their children, but spend years without contacting them, only to one
day wake up and suddenly realize the error of their ways. Thus it
is not only Amerasian children seeking their fathers that Robert helps;
he also helps the fathers who are looking for the offspring they left behind.
Robert works primarily in Olongapo,
where he resides - he doesn't have the financial resources required to
expand his operations beyond that area. He doesn't even have an office,
using instead his home or the home of those in need to conduct his interviews.
He tells me that there are three steps involved in the process:
First: Interview the person
requesting the search and verify as much as possible that person's integrity.
Second: Glean information that
is useful in the search process, and post all of the necessary data and
documents.
Third: Initiate the search.
Interviews with Filipino mothers
usually take 2 to 3 hours. Robert has tried to enlist the aid of various
local foundations but found, to his dismay, that all of them were secretly
profit motivated. For that reason he and his wife work alone.
Searches for the American fathers include the interviews just described,
followed by investigations, many internet-based. In those cases where the
father's Social Security Number is known, Robert can utilize a 3rd party
service to aid him in his search, though this is commercial and must be
paid for by the person initiating the action.
Here is what all this means
to you:
1) If you're an American and
you know or suspect that you have a child in the Philippines, especially
in the Olongapo area, you can contact Robert and enlist his aid.
Perhaps the child or its mother is looking for you, also. Be sure
to check out his website
and view the current and pending searches.
2) If you would like to donate
a little money to Robert's cause, you would be doing a great service, not
to him, but to the children he is trying to help. Find out how on
his website.
3) At the very least, go to
Robert's website and view his pending and current investigations and see
if you can offer any help in the form of information. Perhaps you
know the individual in question, or you live in the same city he was last
known to reside at, etc. Robert is operating out of the Philippines,
and long-distance investigations are not easily accomplished without some
kind of assistance from this side of the ocean.
4) E-mail Robert and commend
him for what he's trying to do.
We all need to do what
we can. These are the children of Americans as well as Filipinas,
and as Americans we need to see that they are treated with a decency and
sense of kindness that their fathers have not yet afforded them.
Visit Robert's site to learn
more. While Robert's primary site is located on a server in the Philippines,
there is also a mirror of his site here at ASAWA. Both are, of course,
identical in content, but those of you residing in the US may have faster
downloads from my server, while any visitors from the Philippines or Far
East will probably find Robert's local server to be faster. Keep
in mind that Robert maintains full editorial control over the content of
his site. While I can relay messages to Robert for you, you can take
out the middleman and email him directly using the email links he has put
on each of his pages.
Here are the links to Robert's
site:
Philippines-based
server U.S.-based
server
Also, another really wonderful
resource, this one dealing specifically with the Ameriasian condition in
Okiniawa, is The
Children of Peace Network, a site designed by Maria Shimabuku and and
Maria Tomiyama (both of whom are Amerasian). Though I thought I had a fair
grasp of the Amerasian situation overseas, and though I spent some time
in Okinawa while in the Marines, I was surprised at exactly how uninformed
I really was. This site is very educational! It illustrates
how the Amerasians in one country or region (Okinawa) actually face
very different trials and obstacles than those of another nation (the Philippines,
for example). Please
click over and read what these good people have to say!
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